White girls don't want us. This might seem at first to be a ludicrous complaint: after all, isn't it 'natural' for white girls to want white guys, and white guys to want white girls?

The part that the Asian man is bitter about is not just "White girls don't want us" but rather "White girls don't want us, but white guys are all over Asian girls". Plenty of white guys want Asian girls. When this happens, they usually call it a fetish. They might give it names they think are clever like "having the Yellow Fever" or "being rice-ist".

Sure, not all white guys are into Asian girls, but there are plenty that are. Let's arbitrarily say that 5% of white guys have a thing for Asian girls. So, 5% of white girls should have a thing for Asian guys, right? WRONG. The answer is probably more like 0.05%.

I mean, when was the last time you saw a male Asian porn star? (In a porno from the US of course, not a porno from Japan, Korea or Hong Kong). And yet, how many female Asian porn stars are there? Okay, you may say porn is mostly targeted towards men. It might not say anything about the wants and desires of average white woman. How about trashy romance novels then? Those are surely the equivalent of porno targeted towards women. I'd be willing to bet that you could scan entire racks of trashy romances at your local bookstores and not find a single one that depicts an Asian man seducing and romancing a white woman.

So there is this inequity in the white-Asian interracial thing, and the group that ends up with the short end of the stick is the Asian men. This is especially hard for those American-born Asians (ABAs) who grew up in America, speak better English than their parents, grew up among white people, and most importantly, have white standards of beauty. These unlucky guys, having been exposed to the American media all his life, is more likely to want a white girlfriend than an Asian girlfriend. The ABA and his white buddy might both be wooing the cute blond girl next door, but that cute blond girl is going to look at the buddy more often than the ABA.

It boils down to the fact that most white girls don't even think about Asian men when they picture a 'datable' guy. The Asian guy they know is a nice guy, is polite, can help them with their science homework - but is never somebody they would fantasize about wining and dining them. Again, critics will say immediately that it's only natural for white girls to want white guys. To this, I say bullshit. Plenty of white girls are into, say, Latino men as much as (or even more than) white guys. There are also white girls who are into black men as much as or more than white guys (leading some white guys to complain that black men are 'stealing their women'. These white guys think they might understand what Asian men are going through. In fact, they don't. They're complete morons.)

Now hold on, some of white girls are saying. I'd date an Asian! I've got nothing against them! That's great and all, but before you go patting yourselves on the back, take a good look at the Asian guy you're picturing in your head as the datable Asian. Does he wear Abercrombie and Fitch and drink lots of beer? If so, he's not a real Asian. He's a Twinkie - yellow on the outside, white on the inside, and full of crap. Does he wear Fubu and refer to himself as a nigga? Also not a real Asian. If on the other hand, he's got glasses and is more versed in chemical engineering than trendy clothes, you're a saint. Give me your number.^^

So in summary, Asian men are bitter about white women not wanting them not because they believe that all white women should want them, but because the trend of white women not wanting Asian men is not similarly mirrored in the trend of white men wanting Asian women. When a white girl meets an Asian guy, she almost instantly categorizes him in the 'not datable' column - most likely done unconsciously, but done all the same. The Asian guy is a good guy to know, but apparently not a choice to date.

 

 

Asian Girls Don't Want Us

 
So I've established that white girls just don't want Asian guys. Big deal, some of you are saying. So what if there are white guys who want Asian girls? They're fetishists, and you can't be bitter just because of a mere fetish.

That would be true except for the following fact, which is really the low blow that enrages most Asian men and sends them into alternating cycles of self-pity and bitter resentment: Asian girls don't want Asian guys either! Yes, you heard right. If the Asian man expected some sympathy from his own race for his plight, instead he got a punch in the gut.

We went over how white guys can be all over Asian girls, and the really sickening part is that the Asian girls are usually more than happy to respond in being all over the white guys. Think of any Asian/white interracial couples you might have seen. Chances are, it's an Asian girl with a white guy, not the other way around. This isn't just subjective bias talking - one recent population survey held in California (where there are huge populations of Asian guys, I want to remind you) found that in an Asian/white interracial marriage, it was 10 times more likely to be an Asian girl and a white guy than the other way around.

Why do asian girls prefer white guys? It's not totally their fault, especially if they're American-born. Like ABA guys, they might have grown up with white standards of beauty, swooning over Leonardo DiCaprio instead of Jet Li while growing up. So they might be more willing to date a white guy than their mother was. Of course, the difference between the Asian girl and the Asian guy is that the girl is likely to get some sort of positive response.

This is where my sympathy ends. It's the other trend - Asian women who've grown up in their own country, swooning over white men half a world away - that's the real kick in the crotch. The attention white guys get in places like Hong Kong, Taipei, Tokyo, and even my homeland, China is just sick. Never mind the recent news about the dating agency that recently opened in Great Britain and the US specifically for the purpose of helping Japanese women find good white men to marry.

What does the white guy have that the Asian guy doesn't? There's two categories of this, actually - stuff that people THINK the Asian guy doesn't have (but he does), and stuff that the Asian guy legitimately doesn't have. Suffice to say that a lot of these things are things that girls SAY they don't care about... but they must be lying, because they do. What do girls usually say they care about? They say they care about respect, and a guy who has a future. Nobody has more respect than the Asian man! We treat our teachers well, we treat our elders well, and of course we treat our women well. As for future? When was the last time you saw a homeless Asian guy, or an Asian guy with a deadend job at a McDonald's?

The only conclusion I can draw from all of this is that most girls are lying to you when they tell you what they're looking for, and that's why the white guy wins. Sad? Yeah. But true.